A young Nigerian entrepreneur and CEO of Densemen Agro Limited, Mr. Emmanuel Amedu Iyaje, has taken to social media to open up about the deepening marital crisis between him and his wife, Mrs. Fatima Iyaje, raising serious questions over the paternity of their child.

In a lengthy and emotionally charged Facebook post, Mr. Iyaje narrated how he had exhausted all means—both personal and family-led interventions—to resolve ongoing issues with his wife, including an alleged abortion and secret use of family planning without his consent. He claimed his efforts to involve his own family in mediating peace were met with violence and humiliation from Fatima’s family at their Ogane-Aji residence in Kogi State.

Iyaje stated that his doubts about the paternity of their son, Zeus, stemmed from disturbing revelations made by a woman named Bimbo, who alleged that Fatima had a long-standing romantic history with Mustapha Amsa Nasir, Bimbo’s ex-husband and a man once accommodated by Iyaje in his home.

According to the entrepreneur, Nasir had shown “unusual interest” in his son, and after conducting a phenotypic comparison using photos, he observed what he described as a “striking resemblance” between Nasir and the child. This, he said, was enough to demand a DNA test—a request Fatima’s family has allegedly refused, instead threatening him with violence.

Fearing for his life and mental health, Iyaje wrote:

“I don\'t want to kpai like Mohbad or kpai in silence. I have to make it public.”

He also recounted that despite having undergone both traditional and Islamic weddings with Fatima, efforts to seek clarity or mediation were frustrated by consistent threats, emotional trauma, and unresolved suspicions that have left him in deep distress.

“I am dying silently, my mental health is shattered. I’m standing alone in all of this,” he added.

Mr. Iyaje promised to share further details, including photographs used in his comparisons, and responses from the accused Nasir, his wife Fatima, and members of her family in the comments section of his post.

The post has since sparked heated discussions online around paternity fraud, domestic abuse, and the emotional toll of marital breakdowns. Many netizens have called for peace, transparency, and for the truth to be established through a legally conducted DNA test.

This story remains developing, and Gist Reports will continue to monitor updates as they unfold.